Marriage Matters - A Discussion
By Isaac Aluochier
The following is a compilation of a discussion between the author and a reader of various articles published on the Servants of Yahweh web site. All of the author's scriptural quotations are from the Hebrew Names Version of the World English Bible available at http://www.ebible.org/bible/hnv/. The reader's comments are indented and in blue. The author's comments are in black.
CONTENTS
- Can A Wife Legally Prevent Her Husband From Marrying An Additional Wife?
- Does Exodus 21:9-11 Give A Wife Authority To Prevent Her Husband From Marrying An Additional Wife?
- Is Desire For An Additional Wife Lust?
- Did The Almighty Share In David's Lust?
- Is Levirate Marriage Founded On Lust?
- Did The Almighty Reprove Moses For Lust For Marrying An Ethiopian Woman?
- Desiring An Additional Wife Is Not Necessarily Lust
- What Traditions And Ordinances Are Believers To Observe?
- A Wife Has No Authority To Depart From Her Marriage Due To Her Husband Marrying An Additional Wife
- Submit To The Almighty's Words
- What Are The Rights Of A Wife Of A Polygynous Husband?
- Properly Dividing The Word Of Truth
- Hebrew Marriage Contract
- Did Laban Have Authority To Limit The Wives That Jacob Could Marry?
- Lavan's Comments To Yaakov Were Devoid Of The Mighty One's Authority
- Lavan's Covenant With Yaakov Does Not Bind Anyone Else
- Genesis 31:50 Does Not Give A Wife Authority To Prevent Her Husband From Marrying An Additional Wife
- Does A Wife Have Power To Limit The Number Of Wives Her Husband Can Have?
- Marriage Should Be Based On The Mighty One's Word
- A Man Has Authority Over His Wife
- A Wife Vetoing Her Husband From Marrying Additional Wives Potentially Violates Yahweh's Word
- Why Did Yahweh Punish Adam?
- Yahweh Will Punish Husbands Who Abdicate Their Yahweh-Given Authority
- A Wife Is To Be Ruled Over By Her Husband
- Yahweh's Clear Family Order
- Should Husbands Be Wimps?
- What If A Husband Has Already Vowed Not To Marry An Additional Wife?
- Vowing And The Validity Of Vows
- Is A Vow Contrary To Yahweh's Will Valid?
- Fathers Have Authority To Veto The Vows Of Their Unmarried Daughters
- A Husband Has Authority To Veto The Vows Of His Wife
- Those In Authority Can Ratify Or Veto Vows Made By Those Under Their Authority
- Yahweh Can Ratify Or Veto The Vows Made By A Man
- Vows Contrary To Yahweh's Will Do Not Stand
- How May One Ascertain Yahweh's Will?
- Can A Man's Vow To Remain Monogamous Stand Before Yahweh?
- The Validity Of A Man's Vow Depends On Yahweh's Specific Will For Him
- Seek Yahweh To Ascertain His Will For You
- Do Not Impose Your Will On Another Person, Especially One Not Under Your Authority
- Is A Man A Liar For Breaking A Vow Contrary To Yahweh's Will?
- Ascertain Yahweh's Will For Your Life
- People Who Break Vows Contrary To Yahweh's Will Are Not Automatically Excluded From Yahweh's Kingdom
- Do Men Who Marry Additional Wives Violate Malachi 2:13-16?
- Why Yahweh Does Not Regard The Offering Of The People
- Why Yahweh Unites A Husband And A Wife
- The Treachery Of Husbands To Wives
- A Husband Who Marries Another Wife, And Does Not Put Away His Existing Wife, Is Not Treacherous Against His Existing Wife
- Breaking A Vow Contrary To Yahweh's Will Is Not Treachery
- What Is Adultery?
- Penalty For Committing Adultery
- Definition Of Adultery
- Desiring Another Wife Is Not Adultery
- Did David Marry All Of Saul's Widows?
- David Did Not Marry All Of Saul's Widows
- Does 1 Corinthians 7:4 Give A Wife Authority To Limit Her Husband From Having Sex With Other Women (Wives)?
- Scripture Cannot Be Broken
- The Holy Spirit Does Not Inspire Words Giving A Wife Authority Over Her Husband
- A Wife Must Learn To Share With Other Wives What Emanates From Their Husband
- A Wife Does Not Have Exclusive Rights Over Her Husband
- Purported Authority Giving A Wife Power To Limit Her Husband's Wives
- Do Matters Arising From The Book Of Ruth Give A Wife Authority To Prevent Her Husband From Marrying An Additional Wife?
- Where Has Yah Given A Wife Power To Restrict Her Husband From Marrying An Additional Wife?
- Do Not Add To Or Remove From Yah's Word
- Does 1 Corinthians 7:5 Deny A Husband The Right To Have Sex With Another Wife Of His?
- Why Is The Questioner Adding To 1 Corinthians 7:5?
- Arrogant Questioner Glories In Self-Perceived Knowledge Of The Scriptures
- It Is More Prudent To Be Humble
- Are Your Wives Slaves Whose Only Duty Is To Raise Children?
- Can A Newly Taken Wife Veto Her Husband From Having Sex With An Existing Wife?
- Yah Contradicts Loony Theory
- Questioner Brands Author A False Teacher
- Should The Author Submit Himself To The Questioner?
- Should The Author Learn From The Questioner Fallacious Teachings And Traits?
- The Teachers The Author Submits To
- Author Does Not Claim Perfection
- Questioner Fails To Prove Alleged Fallacious Teachings Of The Author
- Is This Discussion Based On Yahweh's Law Or Varying Human Laws And Customs?
- A Woman Should Not Be Forced To Marry Any Man Disagreeable To Her
- On What Ground Does A Woman Accept Or Reject A Marriage Proposal?
- Whom Do You Love More, Yahweh Or Man?
- What Should A Man Do If His Prospective Wife Proposes That He Vows To Remain Monogamous After Marrying Her?
- Women Who Fear Yahweh Should Be Willing To Be Part Of A Polygynous Household
- Should Men Submit To Human Laws Outlawing Polygyny?
- Would The Messiah Have Done Wrong If He Refused To Die On A Stake?
- Did King Saul Do Wrong When He Refused To Comply With Yahweh's Word To Him?
- Did Lot's Wife Do Wrong When She Looked Back At The City She Was Fleeing From?
- Anyone Who Rebels Against Yahweh's Word To That One Does Wrong
- Seek Yahweh's Will For Your Life And You Shall Find It
- Obey Yahweh's Will For Your Life, Even When Human Law Decrees Otherwise
- Whose Recognition Of Marriage Is Important - Yahweh's Or Men's?
- Obey Yahweh Rather Than Men
- The Ketubah Of Gibraltar
- Is Divorce On Unscriptural Grounds Valid Before Yahweh?
- A Man Should Retain His Freedom Of Action With Respect To Marriage
- Love Yahweh Above All Others
- Is A Woman Who Presumes To Limit Her Husband's Freedom Acting In Compliance With Yahweh's Will?
- Does A Prospective Wife Have The Right To Limit Her Husband's Freedom Of Action In Her Prenuptial Agreement?
- Do What Yahweh Wills For You
- Do Not Cause Another Person To Breach Yahweh's Will
- Is The Production Of Children The Only Purpose For Marriage?
- Is Strife The Preserve Of Polygynous Households?
- Is The Author's Ship Sinking?
- What One Should Do
- Are The Questioner's Views The Truth About Polygyny?
- Why Uphold Human Traditions Contrary To Yahweh's Word?
- Why Should I Encourage Women To Revolt Against Yahweh's Pure Word?
- Author Answerable To Yahweh
- David And Saul's Widows Revisited
- Is Not The Questioner Adding To Scripture?
- Does Not Marriage End At Death?
- A Widow Can Be Married By A Son-In-Law Of Her Late Husband
- A Man Marrying His Late Brother's Widow Does Not Violate Leviticus 18
- Marriage Ends At Death
- Questioner Continues To Argue That David Did Not Marry Saul's Widows
- A Listing Of Saul's Family
- Not All Of Saul's Or David's Wives (Concubines) Are Named In The Scripture
- Yahweh's Word In 2 Samuel 12:8 Is Sufficient For The Author
- Questioner Does Not Believe Yahweh's Words In 2 Samuel 12:8
- Did Yahweh Give Human Beings Authority To Add To His Law?
- Are Widows Allowed To Marry?
- Leviticus 18 Is Talking Of Human Relations As They Currently Stand
- Leviticus 18 Does Not Necessarily Forbid A Man From Marrying A Widow Previously Wife To A Man's Late Father-In-Law
- Definition Of Close Relatives
- Principles Derived From Leviticus 18
- A Daughter Is A Close Relative
- Grandchildren And Their Spouses Are One's Close Relatives
- Grandparents And Their Spouses Are One's Close Relatives
- Uncles, Aunts And Their Spouses Are One's Close Relatives
- Nephews, Nieces And Their Spouses Are One's Close Relatives
- The Generational Limit Of Close Relatives Is Two Generations From One's Generation
- Step Children And Grandchildren Are Close Relatives
- Step Parents And Grandparents Are Close Relatives
- Death Penalty Levied Against Violators Of The Law On Close Relatives For Purposes Of Sex
- Close Relatives Of A Priest For Purposes Of Mourning
- A Cousin Is Not A Close Relative For Purposes Of Sex
- The Daughters Of Tzelohchad Confirm That Cousins Are Not Close Relatives For Purposes Of Sex
- Kalev Confirms That Cousins Are Not Close Relatives For Purposes Of Sex
- Distinguish Between Close And Distant Relatives For Purposes Of Sex
- Is Forbidding A Man From Marrying His Daughter Or Niece Adding To Scripture?
- Are Principles Derived From Leviticus 18 The Traditions Of Men?
- Is A Maternal Uncle A Close Relative For Purposes Of Sex?
- Does Leviticus 18:16 Apply After The Death Of A Husband?
- Leviticus 18:16 Does Not Apply After The Death Of A Husband
- A Widow Married In Levirate Marriage Does Not Have Lesser Rights Than Other Wives Of Her New Husband
- Does Death Of A Spouse Change The Closeness Of A Relationship For Purposes Of Sex?
- Close Relationships For Purposes Of Sex That Cannot Change
- A Woman's Marriage Ceases Upon The Death Of Her Husband
- Ruth's Story Confirms That Close Relations For Purposes Of Sex Cease Upon The Death Of A Wife's Husband
- Boaz And Elimelekh Belonged To The Same Family
- Ruth Was A Widow Of Boaz's Nephew
- Boaz Married His Nephew's Widow
- Does Leviticus 18 Allow A Man To Have Sex With His Grandmother?
- Leviticus 18 Forbids A Man Having Sex With His Grandmother
- Did Leviticus 18 Forbid David From Marrying His Father-In-Law's Widows?
- A Man's In-Laws By His Wife Are Generally Not His Close Relatives For Purposes Of Sex
- Shaul's Widows Were Not David's Close Relatives For Purposes Of Sex
- Correctly Applying The Law In The Matter Of David And Saul's Widows
- A Daughter Is A Closer Relative Than A Granddaughter
- A Brother And A Sister Have The Same Parentage
- Leviticus 18:17 Defines A Daughter As A Close Relative
- Using Principles Inherent In Yahweh's Law Is Not Adding To It
- A Man's In-Laws On His Wife's Side Are Not Close Relatives For Purposes Of Sex
- Author Concedes That Deriving Principles Inherent In Yahweh's Law Is Not Necessarily Easy
- Questioner Makes Sweeping Statements Concerning The Person Of The Author
- Has The Levirate Law Ever Been Amended?
- The Levirate Law Is Intricately Tied To The Inheritance Of The Deceased
- Priority Of Inheritance Among Relatives
- The Levirate Law Was Not Amended
- Is The Glorified Yah'shuah Bound By Human Traditions?
- Yah'shuah Spoke The Father's Words
- Does Deuteronomy 4:2 Prevent Yahweh From Adding To His Word?
- Deuteronomy 4:2 Is Split Into Two Commands
- Yahweh Was Not Bound By Deuteronomy 4:2
- Nothing Is To Be Diminished From The Law Prior To The Accomplishment Of All Things
- Yahweh Did Not Prohibit Himself From Adding To His Law
- Yahweh's Law Made Provision For Yahweh Giving Additional Words Through His Prophet That He Would Raise Up
- Prophets Have No Authority To Speak Words That Do Not Originate With Yahweh
- Yah'shuah Did Not Violate Deuteronomy 4:2
- Does The Law Permit Harlotry And Lesbianism?
- The Law Calls Prostitution Wickedness
- Prostitution Is Unholy Conduct
- The Law Shows That Lesbianism Is Sin
- Did Yahweh Give Lawmaking Authority To Judges And Officers Of The Hebrew Nation?
- There Is Only One Lawmaker - Yahweh
- Judges In Yisrael Did Not Make Laws
- Even Moshe Did Not Make Laws
- The Kohanim Given Authority To Arbitrate In Difficult Legal Cases
- Kohanim To Inquire Of Yahweh In Difficult Matters
- Man Has No Authority To Make Yahweh's Laws
- Questioner Rambles On Over Several Issues
- Is Yahweh's Way As That Of A Beast In The Wild?
- Does Human Tradition Bind The Resurrected And Glorified Yah'shuah?
- Why Are You Presumptuously Adding To Yah'shuah's Words?
- Who Is Twisting And Stretching Scriptures To People's Destruction?
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